Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Hurt

Is this what I get for being a good person to you?
And all of the things I'm finding out now, how could you do?
But I will not change, I will just grow
From now on I know
Let the silence be heard. Let the silence be heard.

3 comments:

Pat said...

Ouch. So sorry for the pain you are experiencing now, Kate. Not knowing all the facts, tho, it does sound like you've chosen exactly the right reaction: silence. Silence, and then moving on.

Anonymous said...

Nothing that time wont heal, EC.

Margarita Mirasol said...

Awww. Kate.
Chin up. I got over my nightmare by realising that I was not to blame and that I did no wrong. So if somebody hurts you, it is a reflection on them, and not you, and instead you should be proud of who you are. It should empower you.
I tell ya, I can't understand why there are all these wonderful friends of mine, you and Sarge, for example, who are without somebody special. Because you are special. I guess it's just a sign of the times. I think that with this internet stuff, people don't give others enough of a chance and are quick to move on to the next bit of whatever it is they are looking for.
Hang in there. There is somebody deserving of you out there. Just like there is somebody deserving of me out there. Whilst I have forgiven the guy who I am still in love with and want to give it another chance, cos he was very good to me before this happened, I also know that I won't take any more shit from him and will drop him like a hot coal if ever I get an inkling that he isn't 200% into me. And it will be his loss, and my gain.
That's who empowered I feel these days.
And I hope you will start to feel the same way about the jerks who screw you around.
lots of hugs to you Kate
Maria